Episode Overviews
Discover episode overviews, designed to enrich your dating journey with purpose.
We’re kicking off our podcast series with a deep dive into what it means to build a relationship rooted in trust — even when miles apart.
This first episode unpacks how intentionality, real conversation, and consistent dedication can make long-distance love not only work, but thrive.
Episode 1
Finding My Missing Piece
A deeply personal question, and it’s a good sign that we ask it with honesty. Dating later in life brings its own set of unique challenges and opportunities, and the fact that even considering it means something inside you is still open to connection.
Episode 2
Do I Really Want To Date Again?
All we knew was that two grown people—seasoned by life, cautious but curious—had said yes. Yes to dinner. Yes to conversation. Yes to the quiet hope that maybe, just maybe, this would be worth showing up for.
Episode 3
Our First Date
(Part One)
I remember how you smiled when we first saw each other—equal parts confidence and nervousness.
We talked about a variety of subjects, and the strangeness of dating again after all these years. We laughed easily. We paused at the same places. We didn’t try to impress—we just tried to be honest. And that felt like more than enough..
Episode 4
Our First Date (Part Two)
It started innocently enough — random people mingling about, striking up light conversation.
Then someone noticed a glimmer, a sparkle. A bright shiny object on the left hand — and just like that, the conversation shifted.
“Wait… is that what I think it is?” one woman asked, her eyes wide, voice rising with curiosity.
It was no longer just small talk. Suddenly, we were the story.
Episode 5
Random Encounters With Strangers and “The Ring”
Here’s an original emotional, reflective story that dives into the deeper meaning behind wearing a Super Bowl 57 championship ring—something far beyond the value of metal or stones. I wear it now, not as a symbol of loss, but of life. Some rings don’t mark beginnings or endings. Some rings simply hold stories.
Episode 6
The True Meaning Behind “The Ring”
The first time Donna came to visit me in Kansas City, it was more than just a weekend trip—it was a declaration.
She’s a small-town girl, through and through. Used to two-lane roads, waving at strangers, and gas stations that double as diners. So when she pulled into the city—hands gripping the wheel like it was a bull ride at the county fair—I knew this visit was a big deal.
Episode 7
Small Town Girl In The Big City
It started with a conversation — the kind that feels easy, familiar, like you’re picking up where you left off even though you’ve just met.
From texts to talks, from laughs to late-night check-ins, we got to know each other not just by asking questions, but by showing up. We’ve shared stories, dreams, road trips, playlists, coffee dates, and countless “you won’t believe this” moments.
Episode 8
Facebook Official… Not Quite Yet
They say traveling together is the ultimate relationship test—and let’s just say, we passed with flying colors… and a flying lawn chair or two.
Our very first trip together was for a family reunion. Nervous? A little. Excited? Absolutely. It was more than just meeting cousins, aunts, and uncles—it was a chance to really see each other in a new light, outside our comfort zones, surrounded by stories, traditions, and just when we thought the trip couldn’t be more memorable, the last morning hit us like… well, like a tornado.
Episode 9
A Family Reunion, A Tornado, and A Cookie
Two people.
Each with their own lives, their own dreams, and their own battles.
Busy schedules.
This isn’t just about love.
It’s about partnership.
About learning how to move forward—together—without losing who they are as individuals.
It’s about supporting, adjusting, and growing side by side.
Episode 10
Intertwining Circles
When you start dating later in life, it’s not just your heart on the line—it’s your whole world. That includes your grown children, who’ve seen you through every chapter. Joy. Pain. Loneliness. Resilience. They’ve been there.
So when you find someone new—someone who makes you laugh again, who listens to your stories like they’re hearing them for the first time—it’s both exciting and… a little scary.
It’s a moment filled with silent prayers. Will they like them? Will they see what I see? Will they understand this is real?
Episode 11
Meeting Each Other’s Children
In the beginning, it felt effortless.
Laughter flowed, conversations stretched into the night, and every glance felt like a promise.
Everything was wonderful—almost too perfect.
Then came the first real fight.
Not a small disagreement, but a storm.
Words sharper than intended.
Silences louder than before.
Two people suddenly on opposite sides of a wall, they didn’t see coming.
It hurt.
Not because the fight happened,
But because it exposed how much they cared—how much they stood to lose.
Episode 12
THE FIRST FIGHT
We stepped into the cool darkness, hand in hand, ready to explore one of God’s breathtaking natural creations. The air was still, the echoes gentle, and every turn revealed a masterpiece sculpted over thousands of years. Stalactites hung like nature’s chandeliers, while underground rivers whispered ancient secrets.
In the quiet beauty of that place, we couldn’t help but feel small—yet deeply connected to each other and the One who created it all. It was more than just a cave tour; it was a moment where wonder, love, and gratitude met in the shadows and light.
Episode 13
Exploring One of God’s Creations
A fun, lighthearted travel card game about spontaneous exploring together rather than heavy rules or trivia. That’s perfect for couples, families, or friends who want a playful way to “go on adventures” in the game.
Episode 14
The Card Game
Slowly syncing daily rhythms—like morning coffee rituals, evening walks, or Sunday calls with family—so each visit feels more natural, less like a trip. It’s about turning distance into anticipation instead of loss—so instead of missing home, you expand what “home” means: wherever your partner is, that’s part of your home too.
Episode 15
It’s Only An Hour And A Half
Closing out this three-part series, this time the focus is on a conversation with a mirror image. Since you already covered friends and family in the earlier two, this last one could highlight how those dynamics shift when children enter marriage.
Episode 19
Through The Eyes of Our Friends and Family (Part Three)
When we started dating, we both agreed — we didn’t want to waste time or play guessing games. We wanted to date with purpose — to honor God, respect each other, and discover if this relationship was part of His plan.
Here are ten steps that have been working for us, and we pray they’ll help you too
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths.” – Proverbs 3:5-6
Episode 20
Our Ten Steps To Dating With A Purpose
Dating with purpose isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being intentional.
We’ve learned that when you let God write the story, He’ll make it better than anything you could’ve scripted.
Keep praying, keep growing, and trust that God’s best is worth waiting and working for.
Episode 21
Our Ten Steps To Dating With A Purpose (continued)
Two people, one house — and a shared dream of turning walls and furniture into love, laughter, and a life together
Episode 22
Leaving The Big City For The Small Town Girl
A year of praying together, growing together, learning what love looks like when it’s rooted in purpose — not perfection.
We have seen each other’s strengths and struggles. We have built trust and chosen communication over assumption.
Episode 23
One Year Of Dating With A Purpose
Visiting a small town for the first time reminds you that life doesn’t have to be complicated. There’s a quiet beauty in the slow pace, the familiar faces, and the peace that comes with simplicity.
Episode 24
South Dakota Trip
Finding out things about each other that are funny and yet important to the other person — those are the moments that make love feel real. You laugh, you learn, and suddenly, their quirks make perfect sense
Episode 25
You Never Told Me That Before
“The National Competition” focuses on ambition, daily voting, and teamwork in a high-stakes contest.
“The Attachment Challenge” explores the emotional fallout — how two people handle relationships, loyalty, or vulnerability during and after the competition.
Episode 26
The National Competition Then Later, The Attachment Challenge
Two individuals, dating with a purpose, decide to start a podcast where each episode peels back another layer of their lives. What begins as a creative project slowly turns into an emotional journey of self-discovery, healing, and connection.
Episode 27
We Decided To Do A Podcast
Two people who believe they are compatible enter a month-long challenge designed to test emotional maturity, communication, trust, and shared purpose. What begins as a fun social experiment slowly exposes deeper truths about who they are—and who they could become together.
Episode 28
The Relationship Attachment Challenge (More Details)
It’s that beautiful exchange where gratitude becomes a language, and you’re reminded that you do have someone who believes in you. You have a fan, a partner, a teammate who never stops rooting for you.
Episode 29
Our Number One Fan
The whole family is in on it. Someone suggests a group photo, and then one partner drops to one knee. Starting a new chapter surrounded by love and the blending of two families.
Episode 30
She Said YES
Having the conversation to work things out in a relationship is less about saying the perfect words and more about creating the right space, tone, and intention. Having the conversation may mean that you don’t fix everything in one sitting.
It may mean just having a better understanding with less resentment.
Episode 31
When And Why To Have The Conversation
When we Date With A Purpose, there is no universal right timeline. What matters is intentional progress, not speed. Dating at an older age can actually be one of the healthiest and most intentional seasons of relationships.
Episode 32
Age And Timeline – Is That A Factor
Planning for a wedding can feel big—but when it’s done with purpose, it can actually be meaningful and smooth.
Episode 33
Let The Planning Begin
Intentional you are in a relationship, planning, and even how you show up. Grounded, expectant, or quietly excited—you’re allowed to look forward with confidence. Having grandkids as guests without it feeling gimmicky or chaotic.
Episode 34
The Start Of A New Year
Starting the podcast wasn’t just about creating content—it was about creating connection. What began as an idea became a space for real conversations, shared wisdom, laughter, and growth. Each episode stretched me: learning how to listen more deeply, speak more intentionally, and trust the process even when the numbers didn’t tell the full story.
What mattered most wasn’t perfection—it was purpose.
Episode 35
Reflecting Back On 2025
They can say—without dodging or joking—what they’re dating for (marriage, long-term partnership, building a life together). No “let’s see where it goes” fog.
They’ve processed past relationships instead of dragging old wounds into new ones. They can talk about lessons learned without bitterness or blaming.
Purposeful dating requires intention. They plan, follow through, and don’t treat dating like a side hobby.
Episode 36
How To Tell If Someone Is Ready To Date With A Purpose
In the modern dating landscape, intentional dating and dating with a purpose are often used interchangeably to describe a shift away from “dating on autopilot” or casual “hanging out” toward a more conscious, goal-oriented approach.
While they share the same core philosophy—knowing what you want and being upfront about it—there are subtle nuances in how they are practiced and perceived.
Episode 37
Is Intentional Dating The Same As Dating With A Purpose
Planning a wedding can feel like a part-time job, but breaking it down into manageable phases keeps the stress in check. Hearing from others can help with questionable dos and don’ts.
Episode 38
Wedding Planning Feedback
When dating with a purpose, handling sickness and health is less about “fixing” the situation and more about testing compatibility and building a foundation of trust. Because you are dating with a long-term goal, health becomes a critical “litmus test” for a partner’s character and their ability to provide mutual support.
Episode 39
In Sickness And In Health
When non-experts have a conversation with a relationship expert, the dynamic can be powerful — if it’s handled well.
Episode 40
Meeting The Relationship Expert
While a “no fuss, no fight” relationship might sound like the ultimate goal, relationship experts often suggest that the absence of conflict can be just as telling as its presence.
The “Hidden” Storm: In other cases, no fighting is a red flag for “conflict avoidance”. One or both partners may be suppressing their true needs or feelings to “keep the peace,” which eventually leads to resentment, emotional distance, or one person feeling invisible.
The “Healthy” Calm: Some couples rarely fight because they have high compatibility and exceptional communication skills. They address minor frictions immediately through respectful discussion rather than letting them escalate into a “fight”.
Episode 41
No Fuss, No Fight
This episode is all about the dress, but it wasn’t just about saying yes to the dress… it was about saying yes to love, yes to partnership, and yes to a lifetime together.
Episode 42
She Said Yes To The Dress
Two years together and one year away from saying “I do.” The wedding is one day, the marriage is the real goal.
Episode 43
730 Days plus 365 Days
Your dress shopping day is emotional and celebratory. Your planning talk is grounded and purposeful. Together, they create balance, and with the help of some very special friends, it can be magical.
Episode 44
Donna Took Over The Studio Day
When you do not have a specific topic for a podcast, you can dive into all sorts of things. Conversations about the past, present, and future come to life in this episode.
Episode 45
This, That And The Other Thing
Starting a memorial tradition is a powerful way to weave your father’s spirit into the fabric of your daily life, transforming a date of loss into a day of connection. Since he was your best friend, the most authentic traditions often mirror the “small, repeating acts of love” you shared.
Episode 46
Daddy’s Little Girl
The relief when two people from different church backgrounds find a church where they can worship together is often a deep sense of unity, peace, and answered prayer.
Episode 47
Same Faith, Same Church
A two-year anniversary dinner can unexpectedly turn into an ER visit when an emergency happens during the celebration or in the surrounding situation. While anniversaries are usually joyful, real-life moments can shift quickly into medical emergencies.
Episode 48
Our Two-Year Anniversary Surprise
What do you get when three coworkers are all engaged? A three-of-a-kind type of episode! An episode filled with love and laughter.
Episode 49
Three Of A Kind
The world can pressure people into living in survival mode, but identity is rebuilt through rest, faith, community, purpose, and small moments of hope. Even in chaotic times, you are still allowed to feel joy, dream, create, and heal.
Episode 50
Trying Not To Lose Myself
When listeners contact you with relationship questions, honesty and humility matter more than pretending to be experts. You can offer perspective without presenting yourselves as licensed professionals.
People often connect more with authenticity than perfection. Sometimes being relatable, compassionate, and willing to listen can help someone feel heard and less alone.
Episode 51
Fan Mail
Sometimes the best quality time is not about expensive plans, but simply being together through every mile of the journey. Visiting friends and family, stopping to shop a little, sharing conversations, laughter, meals, and memories while traveling through four different states in a single day can create a bond that lasts forever.
Episode 52
Four States In One Day
There is something beautifully full-circle about returning to the same place where the bride’s ring was once purchased — but this time, the tables are turned on the groom. What began as his act of love and commitment now becomes hers.
Episode 53
Now He Can’t Say No
Episode 54